INTERIOR INSPECTION

Accountability without inspection leads to irresponsibility.  Responsibility without inspection leads to mediocrity. Inspection is vital to winning. Winning is a choice. Elegant question: Why is inspection commonly rejected? We strongly tend to reject being inspected. In your life experience do most...

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SURVIVE OR SURRENDER

When tragedy or misfortune strikes there are two choices. The most difficult choice is to survive. The least painful way is to surrender. WIND RIVER it's a movie based on a true story. The storyline is about two fathers who...

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INTENT vs. IMPACT

A well-developed EQ is evident when one knows and understands that intent must ultimately be measured by its impact. Growing up the statement was, "You can go to hell with good intentions." Not until I spent hundreds of hours counseling people...

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FIVE LIFE GIVING SYLLABLES

1. Will 2. You 3. For 4. Give 5. Me 75 years of life experience confirm to me that "will you forgive me" are the four most difficult words for people to say to those that have done wrong. Imagine the husband and...

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CHILD INSPIRATION 

Fall in love with children and you will be in love with life. Find joy in children and you will always be joyful. Play with children and you'll always be playful. Laugh with children and laughter will become easier for you. Smile at...

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SILENCE

“He comes to me in the silence.” - Mark Forrest Knock knock Who's there? Silence, I've come to see you because you need me! Please come in,  because I don't know how to experience silence. Ever taken a class on the subject of...

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USE YOUR EYES

If you have eyes, use them to see both external and internal beauty. How our eyes observe color through tinted lenses is comparative to how our emotional state affects our outlook on life. Our current mood can taint and distort...

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DELIGHT IN DELIGHT

The law of attraction means what we attach ourselves to will multiply and expand. Therefore, what we purposely choose to delight in will grow into greater delight. Delight is not on automatic pilot in our lives. To delight is a...

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THE ‘EZ’ BUTTON

Today's culture has an auto-pilot:  We do what we know we should NOT do, and we don't do the things we know we SHOULD do.   A popular modern-day psychologist says it this way:  "Stop doing what you know is wrong;...

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TRAIN TO WIN

WIN - "To be successful or victorious in a contest or conflict." - Dictionary To win is a verb; a verb connotes action; action involves work; work is learned behavior. Therefore to win is learned behavior. Fact. Children are not...

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