HOUSE TO HOME

When does a house become a home and a home become a house? All of life experience is both mystery and fascination to me.  Brilliant human performance guru, Paul Nakai, tells us, “Curiosity is the highest form of emotional intelligence.” Curiosity leads...

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THIS OUGHTA DO

Danny Glover played a rough, good guy in SILVERADO. Glover wore a pair of six-shooters with many bullets on his over-the-shoulders belt. When his partners greeted him to confront their enemies, with steely eyes and shining teeth, Glover drew...

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THE HUMAN CONDITION, Part 1

Throughout all ages, humankind has debated the innate nature of man.  Is man inherently good, or is man inherently evil?  This is the crucible life question. Interweaving life and speculation, Plato wrote his Socratic dialogue masterpiece, Republic.  His premise: Man...

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BOY AND MAN BROTHERHOOD

King Solomon said in Proverbs 27:17 that "Iron sharpens iron" and "a true friend sticks closer than a brother" in Proverbs 18:24. We become more efficient, we are refined as we sharpen each other. A great example was Jonathan...

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FACIAL RESPONSIBILITY

One of the many life-giving stories by President Abraham Lincoln is about his decision not to hire a well-qualified man for a cabinet position. Several colleagues questioned Lincoln. Colleagues: "Why will you not hire this highly qualified man?" Lincoln: "I don't like his face." Colleagues: "That is...

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HOME BASE (PLATE)

"The day basketball season ended, my second love, baseball began. Throwing strikes was my passion." - Fred Where do you go mentally and or physically when life seems to be sucking the air out of you? There are so many ways...

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ESPERANZA IS HOPE

Esperanza is HOPE and EXPECTATION. Wonderful words! The picture has a red balloon with a rope tied to an anchor. The red is LOVE, our positive emotion for life. The rope is our FAITH. When we believe, the rope will...

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FALLING THREE TIMES

Failure is thought of as a defeat, a lack of success. It is an event, never a person. Yet, failure can be a stepping stone to success. In this respect, it can become valuable.  Years ago, Henry Ford's explanation was:...

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RESENTMENT- PALMS UP PALMS DOWN

Resentment is a signal light telling us to stop or go! Resentment is a gut feeling, telling us something is quite wrong. Resentment ignored turns to bitterness like grapes turn to wine. Bitterness ignored turns to vengeance like mash...

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WHY WE COACH

Do we coach for the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat? Or do we coach for the agony of defeat with seldom a thrill of victory? In my view, competitive sports is like real war. However, the major...

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