Words of Hope: Flooding

Dad and I loved to talk about relationships. Especially how they can be improved. He loved John Gottman and even met with him personally. Gottman and his team of researchers found when relational peace became jeopardized by disagreement, anxiety,...

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Words of Hope: Celebration of Life

Thank you so much for coming to the celebration of life! For those unable to attend the Fred Crowell Celebration of Life, here is the video of the event: Fred Crowell Celebration of Life OpeningWelcome and prayer from Real Life Pastor: 1:15Testimonials Part...

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Words of Hope: Can You Feel the Peace?

At the celebration of life, we had a video of my Dad talking about peace and the importance of pursuing peace. He asked us, “Can you feel the peace?” Research studies reveal that those with higher levels of inner...

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Words of Hope: Power Tool

Forgiveness requires discernment and wisdom for it to bring healing. Forgiveness can happen through the power of the written word, a glance, a touch, a look. Dad believed the more significant the trauma and offense, the more work, the...

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Words of Hope: Daily Relational Clean-up

Dad had the gift of reading the Bible and making the words immediately practical and healing. He believed Christianity should make us more like Christ--more loving, forgiving, generous, and full of joy. But it is hard to be a...

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Words of Hope: The First to Apologize is the Bravest

The ancient parable entitled "The Wager" by some is an old tale of selfishness and refusal to change with counterparts of the same theme told worldwide. It reveals our demand to be correct. Here is a modernized retelling. A husband and...

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Words of Hope: The Generational Journey

When I first met Shann’s father Tom, he seemed very distant. We would enter the house after having traveled far to get there, and Tom would remain on the couch and give us a two-finger greeting while continuing to...

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Words of Hope: The Forgiveness Journey- Part 2

One of my Dad’s and my favorite writers, Henri Nouwen writes, “Forgiveness is the name of love practiced among people who love poorly. The hard truth is that all people love poorly. We need to forgive and be forgiven...

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Words of Hope: The Forgiveness Journey- Part One

Forgiveness is the willingness to start a journey by faith with the hope what currently feels impossible will become possible. We often drove to Edmonton, Alberta, from Spokane when Shann and I were newly married. This long road trip afforded...

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Words of Hope: Dad’s Great Gift

Of all the things my dad taught, one of my favorite and the most powerful has been forgiveness. Because of Dad’s influence, Shann became a researcher on forgiveness.   During his research and work with forgiveness stories around the world, Shann...

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