WHAT’S IN THE CLOSET?

Please allow me to invite you into a typical counseling session. You will need to use your imagination. Here is the scenario.  A client walks into my office. I ask the client for permission to have you listen and learn;...

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GET OUT OF JAIL FREE

Unforgiveness is the number one way to be imprisoned in the Emotional Intelligence Jail. It is holding a grudge against someone who has offended us, leading to unkind and merciless thoughts. It has an underlying poisonous cycle: Unresolved hurt (recognized...

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SANCTUARY HOME

A house is not a whole lot until it is occupied by people. A house becomes either a sanctuary or a battlefield. The definition of a sanctuary is a place of refuge or rest, a place where you can feel...

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DESTINY DREAM MAKERS

"Why did your father end up living alone with a bottle of alcohol in his hand with no hope?" -Dr. Shann Ferch This question could be asked of every street beggar and homeless person.  It could be asked to all who...

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CRY SOME – LAUGH MORE

The mature in emotional intelligence can shed tears and also laugh often.  Both crying and laughter have a healing effect and seem to cure a "multitude of ills." Laughter makes the heart glad!  Joy is God's gift to us. When...

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RECOGNIZE THE VALUE OF APPRECIATION

"The ability to appreciate is a learned behavior. Mastery of this skill of seeing the full worth  in people, in creation and all life is the difference between being a positive or a negative human being." Fred Crowell January 22,...

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BE A GIVER NOT A TAKER

This remarkable, majestic, mysterious world in which we live is governed by physical, psychological and spiritual laws which are both seen and unseen.  The law of give and take falls under the law of cause and effect.  In other words,...

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WIN AT SCHOOL

Millions of USA students enroll in schools across the continent in September with the hope of winning!  Unfortunately, far too many will lose the battle to win. Questions: Why so many failures? Why does one Spokane area school district have...

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HAPPY LAND IS NOT A DESTINATION

Walt Disney grew up an unhappy child. His father did not make life fun for the young Walter Disney. Walter developed a dream. In the mid-1950's, he told his brother, Roy, he was going to build a theme park that...

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START WHERE YOU ARE

All too often it is asked, "Where do I begin to change the world?" The simple question demands a simple answer:  Start where you are. Dr. Jordan Peterson, a clinical psychologist, says:  "If you want to change the world, start with...

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