EQ-EMOTIONAL QUOTIENT

Knowing, understanding and managing your feelings is the foundation of emotional intelligence.

Today the political debate rages on about three major factors: jobs, borders and safety. 

A couple hundred years ago there was rage over another political issue: publicly or privately funded education. 

As always, there were two opponents.  

One side claimed that the government was responsible to provide the citizenry with a free education, as education was essential for a democracy to survive.  

The opposition favored keeping government out of education because they feared that the primary purpose of education was to teach virtue and character. Their premise was if government took control, virtue and character in education would vanish. 

As for me, I did not come to my opinions doing a doctoral thesis. I am not a research scientist. I did not earn a doctorate from a prestigious university. 

Fact is, I am a basketball coach who happened to do marriage and family counseling for a number of years.

I happened to speak in both public and private schools on numerous life topics such as “Saying No To Drugs.” Of all my speaking engagements, I have really enjoyed sharing with teachers the Seven Laws of Learning, that I learned from my very best teacher. 

I did academic counseling for a couple years at a community college, where I happened to start a basketball camp, that in a sense went viral. Thousands and thousands of kids have learned “want to trumps how to” at NBC Camps

The use of “happened to” in the previous sentence is to accentuate these life experience were not planned. They just kind of happened which makes life both mysterious and exciting.

I tell you all this because I am going to challenge my reader’s EQ maturity level and it may evoke some anger in some of you. 

If you find yourself getting worked up, read my Words of Hope The Snake Line.

My goal today is to fire up your emotions. I want you to care. We all need to get worked up, but in a positive way. We need to act on what we learn from this WOH. Agreeing to disagree is a good thing. 

My pastor made a brilliant point, “Be wary when everyone in the room is perfectly in agreement.”

Here goes: Fred Crowell’s truth/opinions. Disclaimer: this is my reality. 

  1. The opponents of free government education were right. Their fear of government taking control of education, causing character and virtue to vanish from the educational process has become reality.
  2. In Soviet Russia, Lenin and Stalin took virtue and character based on Biblical principles out of education with military force. The United States has taken virtue and character based on Biblical principles out of government education with lawyers and legislation. 
  3. 95% or more of the educational process in the USA is IQ education. EQ education is virtually nonexistent.  
  4. I estimate, based in the principle of the parable of the sower, 8 out of 10 students do not want to be at school on any given day. 80% of students do not know the want to factor, which is sound emotional intelligence. The same goes for many of the teachers. Ouch!
  5. If it is true, that the USA is ranked 30th in educational excellence throughout the world, I believe it is because we do not teach emotional intelligence. We have a “want to” educational problem. Learning begins with attitude. Tragically, we do not teach EQ. 
  6. I disagree with the educators and politicians who preach the educational problems of America can be solved with more money. Money is not the problem. EQ is the problem.
  7. Attitude, emotional intelligence, the “want to” factor is the the key. Until you deal will “want to” the “how to” doesn’t even become relevant. The how to, or IQ will never take place.
  8. The holy grail of education should not be IQ tests. Help me understand, how is the SAT a measure of intelligence and life success?

A student of privilege attends a private school at nearly $20,000 dollars per year. Beginning at grade 7, practice for mastering the SAT Begins. On vacation trips to Mexico and Hawaii, this student practices SAT tests, and surprise! We have a national merit scholar and an Ivy leaguer!

Another student lived in a home without books. This child works 29 hours a week to help pay family bills. Never studies or practices SAT tests. Scores poorly. Surprised?

Conclusion. I am fired up. My question is two fold. How can Fred Crowell be game on today with my EQ? What don’t I need to be doing today? Today is a special gift, to breath life and to be fully alive. To be aware not only of my EQ but also the EQ of every person God brings my way today. 

Who can I encourage and be His light too, through His love and His Life today. As St Paul said, “For me to live is Christ and to die is gain.”  Since we are alive, let’s live. 

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