ATTITUDE IS KING

Thoughts become words, words become actions, actions become habits, and habits become your destiny. I remember so clearly an experience in the early years of marriage. After enjoying a fabulous dinner Susie prepared, I was lying on the couch. Susie asked...

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THE LAW OF RESTITUTION – RECONCILIATION

"You can never do too much for Him who has done so much for us." -The late Coach T. One of my best friends, Coach Joe Tremarello, I met in my first year as a basketball coach at the University...

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STORY COLLISIONS

The tendency is to believe the first story told and forget there are two sides to every story. The late Dr. Bill Bright cautioned his team of thousands to make a practice of effective communication because open dialogue almost...

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HEALTHY SILENCE

The base note of our lives is silence. The trees must be in it, the birds sing, the dogs bark, cars beep - people speak - but the silence is the deep ground.  - Marie Howe The beauty, grandeur and...

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THE DETACHMENT PRINCIPLE

The detachment principle is a life skill of letting go with ease and grace yet maintaining zest and a drive to live life fully. All of life has a beginning and an ending. There is first the...

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PEOPLE WATCH YOU

People watch what we are doing, how we do it, and how it makes them feel."  - Derrick Sebastian "May I have another cup of coffee?” Asked the person at the counter. The waiter obviously flustered with too many customers replies...

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EYES ON YOU

Do you want single or double knocks? Every time the aspiring basketball youth yells back to Coach Crowell, “give me double knocks, Coach!!!!!” Coach Crowell makes two-fisted fake binoculars and points to the action. Without exception, the hoopster either gives a great performance...

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BODY TRUTH – HEART TRUTH

The skill to know when the body and the mind are telling us the truth is equally important as knowing when the body and the mind are telling us a lie. Harmony is when the body and mind speak...

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